Married&no bj at home?Wife hates it&Says I should let our gay friend do it if I need a bj so bad.He offered to help.He is safe and said anytime.Wife insists it would be an insult not to return the favor. If we did, she wants to know all&watch if possible.

so....what's stopping you?
If you don't mind getting a blowjob from a guy...just keep in mind that it's just a hard piece of meat...If you like it....great for you and you can do it again! If you don't like it....well....then you'll know why your lady doesn't like it... :-)