Is there something wrong with me that I cant orgasm easily if at all while having sex but yet i can easily when masturbating?

It's probably that you fall into the 70% of women that can orgasm except by clitoral stimulation. There is nothing wrong with stimulating yourself while your partner is pleasuring you and, if you are having sex with a man, you can always ask him (once he is inside you) to hold still and lean back so he is sitting up, while you get out your favorite vibrator and stimulate yourself to a mind blowing orgasm while he caresses your body and while you feel him hard are aroused inside you.