Does your wife need more than you can satisfy her with? How to meet her needs? We have gone through dildo phases. We think it's time for a threesome. No hangups, just sexual pleasure. Who has handled this situation before?

The both of us stay very sexually satisfied. My wife isn't really into dildos, although I wanted to use them on her. She doesn't masturbate unless I'm watching her and she tends to want to have an orgasm by sex instead of masturbating. We've tried threesome and foursomes as well. They are extremely hot. I love seeing my wife with another woman. It's just so sexy. But she has not had an orgasm from the experiences even though she did enjoy the time. The only way she's been able to have an orgasm is by me alone, when I penetrate her (or when I go down on her). We connect on a more emotional level than physical level. If I want to give her a fantastic orgasm, I need to start early in the day and make sure she's had a stress free day, do some romantic things and then get her in the sack. Otherwise, I'm going up hill trying to get her off when she's stone cold.

So you might want to fill her emotional tank up first before filling up her physical tank up. Once her emotional tank is full it only takes ounces instead of gallons to get her physical tank full. And, if you're able to do that and toss in one of her fantasies (like a threesome) it will be well worth it.